When communication is unclear, it is often the case that:
When you want to communicate more clearly, then choose to:
It's that simple.
Ahh...but how do you trust? What can you do to help yourself trust, more...and to do so safely and appropriately? Here are some ideas that you can find useful:
1. Be truthful with yourself, and others...even if with wry humor. Better to be truthful than to live a life based on lies.
2. Take responsibility to see to it that your wants and needs are met. Better than waiting for the universe to do this for you.... "Don't go around hungry!"
3. Upgrade your community, associate with those that are safe, and with whom you intuit or feel a sense of belonging with. Why fill up your life on others?
4. Listen to your intuition. When you have your needs met and you are telling yourself the truth, your intuition is wonderfully trustworthy. Listen to your feelings, your intuition, what you know in the back of your mind...even if it isn't all completely clear to you, yet.
Better than failing to listen to your intuition, and wondering how you got into such a mess!
5. Observe, closely; pay respectful attention: be attentive. Most of the time you have clear signals, ahead of time. Better to act on them ahead of time, than instead wishing you had, by hindsight.
6. Make a decision to trust the universe you live it; if you are relgious, to trust God. It really is a choice.
When you are in touch with what you might distrust, and with what you can trust, and you listen to your intuition, feelings...and you simply know what you know (in the back of your mind)...you can make good choices about trusting, when and how to trust.
A life filled with trust, guarded by concience, alertness and intuition...is a much much nicer life than a life filled with distrust!
Choose how you will live.
7. Enjoy trusting others, and being wise in how and when you do so. Much better way to live than enjoying distrust, and living a twisted life!
8. Trust that you have things to say, and that whatever that is, is good, is enough...even though you will learn more, and even though you will learn how to articulate better.
9. Choose an area of your life that seems threatening, and take it as a challenge, rather than as something to be afraid of. Enjoy the exhileration that can result. Better than living under frequent or constant threat, and feeling afraid.
10. Take a stand, and stand for what you stand for...and get rid of the rest!